What is a Parental Plan In South African Law?
When parents separate or divorce in South Africa, one of the most important steps is setting up a parenting plan. This legally binding agreement ensures that both parents are on the same page regarding the care, upbringing, and responsibilities of their children. A well-drafted parenting plan can minimize conflict and provide clarity for both parents and children, allowing everyone to navigate the changes in a fair and amicable way.
At Burger Huyser, we understand how crucial it is to establish a parenting plan that reflects the best interests of your children while respecting both parents’ rights and obligations. Here’s a comprehensive guide on how to set up a parenting plan in South Africa.
A parenting plan is a formal, written agreement between parents that outlines how they will raise their child or children after separation or divorce. It covers a wide range of issues, including where the children will live, how time will be shared, how decisions about their upbringing will be made, and how communication between parents will be managed.
According to South African family law, specifically the Children’s Act of 2005, it is mandatory for parents to make a parenting plan either voluntarily or through the court when there are issues about child custody, care, or contact. The plan ensures that the child’s best interests are prioritized and clearly outlines the responsibilities and rights of each parent.
9 Steps to Set Up a Parenting Plan in South Africa
- Understand the Legal Framework Before drafting your parenting plan, it’s essential to familiarize yourself with the relevant laws. In South Africa, the Children’s Act governs matters related to parental responsibilities and rights. This law emphasizes the importance of ensuring that the child’s well-being is the primary consideration when making decisions.
- Decide on Custody and Care Arrangements The first major decision to make is where the child will live. In South Africa, there are two primary types of custody arrangements:
- Primary Caregiver: The child lives primarily with one parent, who is responsible for their daily care, while the other parent may have access or visitation rights.
- Joint Custody: Both parents share custody, and the child divides their time equally or reasonably between both homes.
- Your plan should clearly state who the primary caregiver will be or how joint custody will be implemented, along with the frequency and duration of visits if applicable.
- Establish Parental Responsibilities Parental responsibilities go beyond where the child will live. The parenting plan should clearly outline how both parents will contribute to the child’s emotional, educational, financial, and medical needs. This includes deciding who will make important decisions regarding:
- Education: Which school will the child attend, and who will be responsible for school-related matters?
- Healthcare: How will medical and dental care be managed? Will both parents have equal say in healthcare decisions?
- Relocation: What will happen if one parent wants to move to a different city or province? How will the child’s best interests be protected in such cases?
- Religion and Cultural Practices: What religious or cultural practices will be observed in the child’s upbringing?
- Create a Visitation or Contact Schedule The parenting plan should also include a detailed visitation or contact schedule. This specifies how the child will spend time with each parent, including holidays, birthdays, and special occasions. The schedule should be flexible but provide enough structure to minimize confusion for the child.
- Set Guidelines for Communication Clear communication between parents is essential for a successful co-parenting relationship. The plan should outline how both parents will stay in touch with one another and with the child, as well as how to manage any disputes. This might include setting times for phone calls, emails, or other forms of communication.
- Consider Dispute Resolution Mechanisms Despite the best efforts to agree on all aspects of parenting, disagreements are inevitable. Your parenting plan should include a dispute resolution process to handle conflicts, such as mediation or arbitration. This can help parents avoid lengthy and costly legal battles and ensure that decisions are made in the best interest of the child.
- Seek Legal Advice While a parenting plan can be created independently by the parents, it is often a good idea to consult with a lawyer to ensure that it complies with South African law and protects both the parents’ rights and the child’s best interests. A family lawyer can assist in drafting a legally binding plan or can help mediate any disagreements between the parents.
- Submit the Parenting Plan to Court Once the parenting plan is finalized, it must be submitted to the Family Court for approval. The court will review the plan to ensure that it serves the child’s best interests. If the court agrees, the plan will be made an order of court, making it enforceable by law.
Why a Parenting Plan is Important
Setting up a parenting plan is crucial for several reasons:
- Stability for the Child: It provides a clear structure, helping the child feel secure and understand their living arrangements and schedule.
- Conflict Resolution: Having a written agreement can prevent misunderstandings and reduce conflict between parents.
- Legal Protection: Once court-approved, the parenting plan becomes legally binding, ensuring that both parents adhere to their responsibilities.
- Peace of Mind: Both parents will have a clear understanding of their roles, leading to smoother co-parenting and more effective collaboration.
Contact Burger Huyser Attorneys to set up a fair and comprehensive parenting plan that prioritises the well-being of your children.
Creating a parenting plan is an essential step in ensuring that both parents are involved in their child’s upbringing after separation or divorce. At Burger Huyser, we understand the importance of this process and are here to guide you every step of the way.Â
Contact Burger Huyser Attorneys, and book a consultation for professional and compassionate legal assistance. To speak to one of our experienced parenting plan lawyers in South Africa for immediate assistance, contact us on the numbers below:
Randburg call 061 516 6878; Roodepoort call 061 516 0091; Sandton call 064 555 3358;  Pretoria call 064 548 4838;
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